No one can stop getting upset because the press is really unfair and disgusting.

It might have been Ingo who didn't what to deal with Helloween and Kai (though I really don't want to blame him now that he's not here - he did what he thought was the right thing to do). It's quite enough that the guys who knew Ingo miss him (I'm sure they do! All those songs they dedicated to him) and blame themselves. And as for Mike, neither the press nor the fans know exactly how HE felt about Ingo's death and have no right to blame him...